I had to do something drastic to connect back to my teenage son. Guess what?
He is in the tenth grade now and for the past few months I have been watching him spend hours…well not studying as in from his textbooks, but watching you tube videos or playing mine craft.
So this week finally I had to step in to help him achieve his own goals for this academic, to clear the tenth grade. Remember, a family is there to help support one another!
The first step was to get him to explain to me and understand what he wanted to actually get done.
For that I asked him to make a timetable for the week. He wrote that and we put it up on a big sheet in his room.
Then I gave him three days to see what he was actually able to do on his own. The wifi and internet remained on during this time.
What I observed was that he was simply unable to control the amount of time he spent on the net either on you tube or his mobile or on the desktop or laptop playing games.
So after three days I had to sit with him and make him understand in very simple terms what was happening.
Such is the power of these activities that the child is unable to recognize and tries to justify by saying that he has finished his assigned duties.
So we had to go for the complete solution. Just unplug the modem and keep it away in a secure place, and take the smart phone from him.
This has worked wonders!
We have our son back again!
Do share your experiences with your teenage kids 🙂